Mykal Kilgore

Queer Singer Mykal Kilgore Talks New Tour, New Single, and New Move to Atlanta

Singer and “artivist" Mykal Kilgore says, in many ways, he feels like he is starting over. Having achieved success on Broadway (Motown The Musical, The Book of Mormon, HAIR!) and television (The Wiz Live!, Jesus Christ Superstar Live In Concert), Kilgore made history in 2021 when he became the first openly queer singer to receive a Grammy nomination for Best Traditional R&B Performance. Now, Kilgore is laser-focused on his budding recording career and “The Man In The Barbershop Tour,” which kicks off in Atlanta on February 3 at Vinyl. 

It feels appropriate that he would begin his 13-city east coast tour in Atlanta now that he’s a new resident. Kilgore’s sit down with The Reckoning was his first matter of business and official welcome to the South after getting settled into his new Atlanta address. Without hesitation, he made it clear why he chose to make Atlanta home. 

“I wanted to be around Black queer folks because the art is for us,” he said. “I want to test out the work and I want people to be able to say, this is what we want, or this is what we need, because sometimes the music may not be exactly what you think you want, but I want to give us the music, the art, the craft, the work that we as a community need.”

“I wanted to be around Black queer folks because the art is for us ... I want to give us the music, the art, the craft, the work that we as a community need.”

— Mykal Kilgore

Just as he did in the song and visual for “The Man In The Barbershop,” Kilgore’s latest single and follow-up to “Let Me Go,” the Grammy-nominated single from his “A Man Born Black” album, is based on real events.“Barbershop” is a beautiful display of unrequited love in one of the most challenging spaces for Black queer men. The reaction from fans, many of whom, with their own experiences of being Black and queer while navigating the hetero-normative space of the Black barbershop, felt seen and represented in Kilgore’s work. 

“I didn't realize that [Man In The] Barbershop was going to hit the way that it did,” Kilgore says. “I knew that I wanted to tell that story and I knew I was willing to take that risk, but it was so fulfilling to see Black queer folks say, ‘Oh, I felt that same thing. I've had the same experience.’ I'm so glad that I finally have a song that speaks to that.”

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Daily Northwestern - Q&A: Grammy-nominated singer Mykal Kilgore to perform in Chicago this month

Artist Mykal Kilgore performs at the 2021 Met Gala.

Rayna Song, Arts & Entertainment Editor
February 3, 2022

R&B singer Mykal Kilgore, who performed at the 2021 Met Gala, spoke with The Daily about his songs and upcoming performance at The Promontory in Chicago on Feb. 19. Kilgore released his latest single “The Man in the Barbershop” in September 2021, and he was the first openly gay artist nominated in the “Best Traditional R&B Performance” category at the 63rd Annual Grammy Awards.

This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity.

The Daily: Where did you draw your inspiration for “The Man In The Barbershop”?

Kilgore: It happened in real life a few years ago. I met a man in a barbershop, and I thought he was very handsome and interesting, but then he mentioned his girlfriend. We remained friends afterwards, and it has always been a sweet memory, since I was not treated badly because I was queer and decided to speak about that. It was someone who said, “I totally respect that. Thank you, but I’m just not interested.” 

The Daily: What message do you hope to send with the song?

Kilgore: I want to make it easier for people to tell the truth about who they are. I want people to see themselves reflected back and feel courage enough to do the same thing, to reflect themselves for others to see. I want this to be so common that it doesn’t feel strange to hear a man speak about another man in a loving way in a song.

The Daily: What was your experience performing at the Met Gala last September like?

Kilgore: As an independent artist and as a queer person who started their career in theatre in theme parks and cruise ships, to be able to ascend to such a place — it’s humbling to look around the room and feel, ‘Oh wow, all these stars are here,’ but it is also a reminder that the possibilities are endless.

The Daily: How does your identity impact your music? 

Kilgore: It impacts my work immensely because I have to live in this queer body, and I also have to live in a Black body. If you are an artist, it’s your job to do your best to get to know yourself and to feel your feelings. In this process of creating work and doing theatre and television and film, it really feels like I’m just trying to take masks off. The things that I can’t take off, I realized this is who I really am. And the audience can’t have my art without my queerness or without my Blackness. It’s in every note, every rhythm, every breath. 

The Daily: Do you have any advice for aspiring students at NU?

Kilgore: Focus on the craft. Don’t try to make art. We’ll figure out that something is art in years or generations. The focus should be on making good craft, like doing the things that you know, respecting your training and work ethic and being as excellent as you can, and then let the art take care of itself.

Email: raynasong2023@u.northwestern.edu 

Twitter: @RaynaYu_Song 

Mykal Kilgore Performs At The 2021 Met Gala Dressed By Dapper Dan

Mykal Kilgore Performs At The 2021 Met Gala Dressed By Dapper Dan

Trailblazer & Grammy-nominated singer, songwriter, and activist Mykal Kilgore sang to a fully masked crowd of fashionistas and fans at the Met Gala last night, dressed for the event in custom couture by Dapper Dan, the Harlem couturier and American fashion designer who combines elegance and swagger. Kilgore’s performance coincides with the September 10th release of his new single and video “The Man In The Barbershop.”

Grammy Nominated Singer, Songwriter & Activist Mykal Kilgore Arrives At The Met Gala Dressed In Dapper Dan of Harlem

Grammy Nominated Singer, Songwriter & Activist  Mykal Kilgore  Arrives At The Met Gala Dressed In Dapper Dan of Harlem

Grammy-nominated singer, songwriter, and activist Mykal Kilgore has arrived and walked the red carpet for the Met Gala moments ago dressed in custom couture by Dapper Dan, the Harlem couturier, and American fashion designer who combines elegance and swagger.

MYKAL KILGORE, AWARD-WINNING VOCALIST, DELIVERS HIS DEBUT ALBUM, A MAN BORN BLACK, DUE FOR RELEASE SEPTEMBER 6, 2019

MYKAL KILGORE, AWARD-WINNING VOCALIST, DELIVERS HIS DEBUT ALBUM, A MAN BORN BLACK, DUE FOR RELEASE SEPTEMBER 6, 2019

Los Angeles, CA (August 7th, 2019) – Award-winning vocalist Mykal Kilgore is set to release his debut album, A Man Born Black, via Affective Music on September 6, 2019. This inaugural release is an exploration of Black life, wrapped in a mix of classic soul and R&B sonic exterior, and delivered through Kilgore’s expressive songwriting and vocal abilities. Although the album is Kilgore’s debut solo effort, more than likely, it is not the first time you have heard his voice. Kilgore has stolen the hearts of music lovers everywhere through his work on the Broadway stage (Motown the Musical, Book of Mormon, Hair), his notable performance as part of NBC’s The Wiz Live! and Jesus Christ Superstar Live in Concert, and his viral video “Reclaiming My Time” inspired by Congresswoman Maxine Waters. 

Music Industry Magnate, David S. Hargrett Launches Affective Music — A New Music Servicing Company and Record Label

Music Industry Magnate, David S. Hargrett Launches Affective Music — A New Music Servicing Company and Record Label

The new company will offer artist management, record label services and musician placement for TV and Film.  

Los Angeles, CA (June 20, 2019) – Music industry magnate, David S. Hargrett announced today the formation and launch of, Affective Music, a music servicing company.  The new effort will offer artist management, musician placement for TV and film and house a record label under the same name – its first project is slated to be the debut release from award-winning vocalist, Mykal Kilgore, produced by Affective Music artist management client, Jamison Ross. Affective Music is described by Hargrett as, “an evolution of” 360 Artist Management, the company he founded in 2014. “Affective Music was conceived as our offerings expanded in the music space” said Hargrett. “Once our offerings became more, I felt it was important to have a company name and mission that better represented the work we are doing.”